Welcome to My HR Partner


At My HR Partner, we understand that great employees are the cornerstone of a great business. That’s why we offer comprehensive HR services, tailored to empower your business with the tools and strategies needed for growth. We specialise in working with employee-focused professional service providers, managing those challenging HR issues that arise so you can focus on your core business activities with confidence.

We ensure that your HR policies, processes, & employment contracts are up-to-date and relevant to your business. By doing so, we help you maintain a workforce that is both competent and passionately engaged in your business vision.

At My HR Partner, we are committed to providing you with the HR support you need to thrive. Let us help you manage your most valuable asset – your people.

Karen Hillen is an experienced Human Resources specialist with over 30 years of expertise in the field. She curates the My HR Partner HR Hub which is a valuable resource for businesses covering various aspects of HR, including starting and ending employment, compliance, payroll, employee performance, WHS and more.

Her extensive experience in HR makes her a sought-after advisor and partner for businesses.

Welcome to My HR Partner


At My HR Partner, we understand that great employees are the cornerstone of a great business. That’s why we offer comprehensive HR services, tailored to empower your business with the tools and strategies needed for growth. We specialise in working with employee-focused professional service providers, managing those challenging HR issues that arise so you can focus on your core business activities with confidence.

We ensure that your HR policies, processes, & employment contracts are up-to-date and relevant to your business. By doing so, we help you maintain a workforce that is both competent and passionately engaged in your business vision.

At My HR Partner, we are committed to providing you with the HR support you need to thrive. Let us help you manage your most valuable asset – your people.

Karen Hillen is an experienced Human Resources specialist with over 30 years of expertise in the field. She curates the My HR Partner HR Hub which is a valuable resource for businesses covering various aspects of HR, including starting and ending employment, compliance, payroll, employee performance, WHS and more.

Her extensive experience in HR makes her a sought-after advisor and partner for businesses.

HR Advice

HR When you need it
Karen’s advice is always tailored to meet the unique needs and objectives of your business. Her ability to
blend empathy with professionalism makes her an invaluable asset in helping you with your HR questions.
You can book in for a call when you need it.

HR Hub

Unlock HR Resources

Join our exclusive community & gain access to resources, tools, & ongoing HR support.

You’ll have access to our invaluable resources 24/7 AND the opportunity to tap into support via our Q&A sessions, masterclasses & webinars.

Get up to date links to valuable HR information, Awards, Award
pay guides, compliance documents, templates, checklists, and info sheets.

HR Policies

Your Guide to HR Policies
Customised, up-to-date HR policies are crucial for your business.

We help you develop & implement clear, effective HR policies that align with your values.

Our approach is designed to create a positive work environment & minimise risks.

Employment Contracts

Get your contracts created for you

Secure your business and your people with professionally crafted HR contracts.

We provide thorough and compliant employment contract solutions tailored to your business needs.

On Demand HR

Your Virtual HR Manager
Customised, up-to-date HR policies are crucial for your business. We help you develop & implement clear, effective HR policies that align with your values.
Our approach is designed to create a positive work environment & minimise risks.

Podcast

Simplifying HR Management - One episode at a time

Talking all things HR to help you make sure you are dotting the "i"s and crossing the "t"s ensuring you have everything in place to ensure a thriving business with happy employees.

Our Latest Blog Post

Kindness in the workplace

Kindness and Empathy in the Workplace: Why It’s Good for People—and the Bottom Line

March 27, 20254 min read

Kindness and Empathy in the Workplace: Why It’s Good for People—and the Bottom Line

Kindness and empathy might sound like soft concepts. Nice-to-haves. The warm and fuzzy stuff reserved for motivational posters and the occasional feel-good email. But in today’s workplaces, these traits are fast becoming more than a "nice to have" but they are now business imperatives—and smart business owners and leaders are paying attention.

Let’s be clear: kindness isn’t weakness. Empathy isn’t a distraction. They’re power skills. Strategic advantages. And when embedded into your workplace culture, they don’t just make people feel better (although they certainly do)—they make your business perform better too.

First, a Quick Reality Check

The modern workplace is undergoing a quiet revolution. Employee expectations have shifted. People want more than a pay packet and maybe a few other perks. They want to feel valued, respected, and understood. They want to work somewhere that aligns with their values. Somewhere human.

And let’s face it: with mental health challenges on the rise, burnout still bubbling away post-pandemic, and ongoing change fatigue, businesses need to do more than manage performance—they need to support the humans behind the KPIs.

That’s where kindness and empathy come in. They’re not a fluffy bandaid. They’re a foundation.

So What Does Kindness Look Like at Work?

Spoiler alert: it’s not just about muffins at morning tea (although, let’s be honest, muffins help at any time! ).

Workplace kindness is practical. It’s listening without interrupting. It’s giving feedback with care. It’s checking in when someone’s off their game. It’s saying thank you—and meaning it. It’s making space for vulnerability, not punishing it.

In leadership, kindness is giving people clarity and consistency. It’s not sugarcoating the hard stuff but delivering it with respect. It’s having the tough conversations because you care—not in spite of it.

And in practice, kindness means setting up systems and policies that value people as people. Think flexible work, honest gratitude, genuine wellbeing initiatives, inclusive communication, and leaders who lead with heart.

Empathy: The Business Superpower

Empathy takes things a step further. It’s not just being nice—it’s understanding how others feel and responding accordingly. It’s what allows leaders to connect and support, and teams to thrive.

Companies that foster empathy don’t just have happier teams—they’re more innovative and more productive too. Why? Because empathy builds trust, and trust is rocket fuel for collaboration, creativity, and commitment.

Empathy also makes us better at handling conflict and problems (which are inevitable), and navigating change (which is constant). It helps us move from the attitude of “what’s wrong with them?” to “what’s going on for them?” That shift in perspective changes everything.

The ROI of a Kindness Culture

Let’s talk money. Because yes—kindness has an ROI.

Studies consistently show that psychologically safe, empathetic workplaces outperform those that rely on fear, silence, or status. Employees in caring cultures are:

  • More engaged: They’re emotionally invested in their work and more likely to go the extra mile.

  • More loyal: They stick around longer, saving you on recruitment and onboarding costs.

  • More collaborative: They share knowledge and support their teammates.

  • More resilient: They bounce back faster from setbacks.

  • Less burnt out: They have better mental health, which means fewer sick days and higher productivity.

A Gallup study found that teams with high employee engagement (a close cousin of empathy and kindness) are 21% more profitable. That’s not just warm and fuzzy—that’s warm and fuzzy with a bottom-line boost.

But What If Kindness Gets Taken Advantage Of?

Ah yes, the classic fear: “If we’re too kind, people will slack off.”

Let’s debunk that.

True kindness isn’t about letting people get away with not doing their job. It’s not avoiding accountability. In fact, some of the kindest things you can do as a leader involve setting clear expectations, giving honest feedback, and calling people in when they miss the mark. Letting things go on without addressing them can be much worse.

Kindness doesn’t remove boundaries—it reinforces them with respect. It creates safety, not softness. And people tend to rise to the level of the environment around them. Create a culture of care, and you’ll see performance lift—not fall.

Building a Culture of Empathy and Kindness

So how do you bring this to life in your business?

Here are a few practical starting points:

  • Be the example: Leaders set the tone.

  • Teach it: Don’t assume people know how to show empathy—teach them.

  • Create space for conversation: Real connection needs time and intention.

  • Celebrate it: Reward acts of kindness and empathy in real, visible ways.

  • Embed it into your systems: From hiring to performance management and performance reviews, make empathy and kindness part of all process.

And importantly, don’t let it be a one-off. Make it part of everything you do.

Final Thoughts: It’s Not Just About Feeling Good. It’s About Doing Good.

Kindness and empathy aren’t fluffy extras—they’re the glue that holds strong, modern workplaces together. They create environments where people don’t just survive—they thrive. And when your people thrive, your business does too.

In a world that’s increasingly automated, fast-paced, and disconnected, being the workplace that leads with heart isn’t just nice—it’s a competitive edge.

So go on—be kind. Empathise. Lead with humanity.

Your team will thank you. And so will your bottom line.

Tapping into more than 30 years’ experience in Human Resources, staffing & payroll, Karen loves helping you get the best out of your people while providing you, the business owner, with peace of mind.

Karen Hillen

Tapping into more than 30 years’ experience in Human Resources, staffing & payroll, Karen loves helping you get the best out of your people while providing you, the business owner, with peace of mind.

Back to Blog

We provide HR advice and support. We have trusted partners to assist with any employment law issues
outside of our scope.

More info

PO Box 1079

Coolangatta QLD 4225

ABN 30 644 527 015

Get HR Advice from our HR expert

HR Advice

HR When you need it
Karen’s advice is always tailored
to meet the unique needs and objectives of your business. Her ability to blend empathy with professionalism makes her an invaluable asset in helping you with your HR questions.
You can book in for a call when
you need it.

HR Hub

Unlock HR Resources

Join our exclusive community & gain access to resources, tools, & ongoing HR support.

You’ll have access to our invaluable resources 24/7 AND the opportunity to tap into support via our Q&A sessions, masterclasses & webinars.

Get up to date links to valuable HR information, Awards, Award
pay guides, compliance documents, templates, checklists, and info sheets.

HR Policies

Your Guide to HR Policies
Customised, up-to-date HR policies are crucial for your business. We help you develop & implement clear, effective HR policies that align with your values.
Our approach is designed to
a positive work environment &
minimise risks.

Employment Contracts

Get your contracts created for you

Secure your business and your people with professionally crafted HR contracts.

We provide thorough and compliant employment contract solutions tailored to your business needs.

On Demand HR

Your Virtual HR Manager
Customised, up-to-date HR policies are crucial for your business. We help you develop & implement clear, effective HR policies that align with your values.
Our approach is designed to
create a positive work environment
& minimise risks.

Podcast

Simplifying HR Management - One
episode at a time

Talking all things HR to help you make sure you are dotting the "i"s and crossing the "t"s ensuring you have everything in place to ensure a thriving business with happy employees.

Our Latest Blog Post

Kindness in the workplace

Kindness and Empathy in the Workplace: Why It’s Good for People—and the Bottom Line

March 27, 20254 min read

Kindness and Empathy in the Workplace: Why It’s Good for People—and the Bottom Line

Kindness and empathy might sound like soft concepts. Nice-to-haves. The warm and fuzzy stuff reserved for motivational posters and the occasional feel-good email. But in today’s workplaces, these traits are fast becoming more than a "nice to have" but they are now business imperatives—and smart business owners and leaders are paying attention.

Let’s be clear: kindness isn’t weakness. Empathy isn’t a distraction. They’re power skills. Strategic advantages. And when embedded into your workplace culture, they don’t just make people feel better (although they certainly do)—they make your business perform better too.

First, a Quick Reality Check

The modern workplace is undergoing a quiet revolution. Employee expectations have shifted. People want more than a pay packet and maybe a few other perks. They want to feel valued, respected, and understood. They want to work somewhere that aligns with their values. Somewhere human.

And let’s face it: with mental health challenges on the rise, burnout still bubbling away post-pandemic, and ongoing change fatigue, businesses need to do more than manage performance—they need to support the humans behind the KPIs.

That’s where kindness and empathy come in. They’re not a fluffy bandaid. They’re a foundation.

So What Does Kindness Look Like at Work?

Spoiler alert: it’s not just about muffins at morning tea (although, let’s be honest, muffins help at any time! ).

Workplace kindness is practical. It’s listening without interrupting. It’s giving feedback with care. It’s checking in when someone’s off their game. It’s saying thank you—and meaning it. It’s making space for vulnerability, not punishing it.

In leadership, kindness is giving people clarity and consistency. It’s not sugarcoating the hard stuff but delivering it with respect. It’s having the tough conversations because you care—not in spite of it.

And in practice, kindness means setting up systems and policies that value people as people. Think flexible work, honest gratitude, genuine wellbeing initiatives, inclusive communication, and leaders who lead with heart.

Empathy: The Business Superpower

Empathy takes things a step further. It’s not just being nice—it’s understanding how others feel and responding accordingly. It’s what allows leaders to connect and support, and teams to thrive.

Companies that foster empathy don’t just have happier teams—they’re more innovative and more productive too. Why? Because empathy builds trust, and trust is rocket fuel for collaboration, creativity, and commitment.

Empathy also makes us better at handling conflict and problems (which are inevitable), and navigating change (which is constant). It helps us move from the attitude of “what’s wrong with them?” to “what’s going on for them?” That shift in perspective changes everything.

The ROI of a Kindness Culture

Let’s talk money. Because yes—kindness has an ROI.

Studies consistently show that psychologically safe, empathetic workplaces outperform those that rely on fear, silence, or status. Employees in caring cultures are:

  • More engaged: They’re emotionally invested in their work and more likely to go the extra mile.

  • More loyal: They stick around longer, saving you on recruitment and onboarding costs.

  • More collaborative: They share knowledge and support their teammates.

  • More resilient: They bounce back faster from setbacks.

  • Less burnt out: They have better mental health, which means fewer sick days and higher productivity.

A Gallup study found that teams with high employee engagement (a close cousin of empathy and kindness) are 21% more profitable. That’s not just warm and fuzzy—that’s warm and fuzzy with a bottom-line boost.

But What If Kindness Gets Taken Advantage Of?

Ah yes, the classic fear: “If we’re too kind, people will slack off.”

Let’s debunk that.

True kindness isn’t about letting people get away with not doing their job. It’s not avoiding accountability. In fact, some of the kindest things you can do as a leader involve setting clear expectations, giving honest feedback, and calling people in when they miss the mark. Letting things go on without addressing them can be much worse.

Kindness doesn’t remove boundaries—it reinforces them with respect. It creates safety, not softness. And people tend to rise to the level of the environment around them. Create a culture of care, and you’ll see performance lift—not fall.

Building a Culture of Empathy and Kindness

So how do you bring this to life in your business?

Here are a few practical starting points:

  • Be the example: Leaders set the tone.

  • Teach it: Don’t assume people know how to show empathy—teach them.

  • Create space for conversation: Real connection needs time and intention.

  • Celebrate it: Reward acts of kindness and empathy in real, visible ways.

  • Embed it into your systems: From hiring to performance management and performance reviews, make empathy and kindness part of all process.

And importantly, don’t let it be a one-off. Make it part of everything you do.

Final Thoughts: It’s Not Just About Feeling Good. It’s About Doing Good.

Kindness and empathy aren’t fluffy extras—they’re the glue that holds strong, modern workplaces together. They create environments where people don’t just survive—they thrive. And when your people thrive, your business does too.

In a world that’s increasingly automated, fast-paced, and disconnected, being the workplace that leads with heart isn’t just nice—it’s a competitive edge.

So go on—be kind. Empathise. Lead with humanity.

Your team will thank you. And so will your bottom line.

Tapping into more than 30 years’ experience in Human Resources, staffing & payroll, Karen loves helping you get the best out of your people while providing you, the business owner, with peace of mind.

Karen Hillen

Tapping into more than 30 years’ experience in Human Resources, staffing & payroll, Karen loves helping you get the best out of your people while providing you, the business owner, with peace of mind.

Back to Blog

We provide HR advice and support.
We have trusted partners to assist with
any employment law issues outside
of our scope.

More info

PO Box 1079

Coolangatta QLD 4225

ABN 30 644 527 015

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